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Is it right for your boyfriend to have a female best friend?
As a guy, can you have a female best friend and have a girl friend? As a lady, will you allow your boyfriend have a female best friend who's not you?
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No right or wrong.

To each their own.

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Doesn't matter

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My boyfriend has a female best friend and it's not a big deal.

Although, most times, we've had to argue over it but the relationship between a girlfriend and a best friend are two different things.

Understanding your place as a girlfriend will go a long way in determining what happens between your boyfriend and his best friend.

I understand that my boyfriend has known his best friend even before he met me and they share a lot together but that doesn't mean he should discard his long term friendship because of me.

He understand his boundaries with her and I understand that it is just what it is...no strings attached. He loves her like a sister and loves me like a wife.

He places me before her of course 😉 and everyone is happy. 😄🌟🎉

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My boyfriend has a female best friend and it's not a big deal.

Although, most times, we've had to argue over it but the relationship between a girlfriend and a best friend are two different things.

Understanding your place as a girlfriend will go a long way in determining what happens between your boyfriend and his best friend.

I understand that my boyfriend has known his best friend even before he met me and they share a lot together but that doesn't mean he should discard his long term friendship because of me.

He understand his boundaries with her and I understand that it is just what it is...no strings attached. He loves her like a sister and loves me like a wife.

He places me before her of course 😉 and everyone is happy. 😄🌟🎉

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Hi there, 

I would like to give this answer on my own behalf. Yes, It is a good thing to have Best friend whether it is for a Girl or a Boy. Best friend is the person who is always ready to listen you help you when you needed. Sometimes, Due to miss conception it will become difficult but the relationship of a Best friend and a Girlfriend is different. 

Thank You & Have a Good Time :-)

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 My first thought to this question is: "uh oh".

But I would argue its not "wrong", immoral or unscrupulous, for your boyfriend to have a female best friend, but I would argue its not a good sign of the depth of your relationship. 

Men and women can be friends. without sex, but its hard, and unusual. What's more, when you are in a committed relationship, your partner ought to be your "partner", 50-50, your "significant" other, to have and hold, above any other. These words and the images they imply are deliberately focal, intense, and dramatic. The idea being that the one we love, becomes one with us, and we are now not easily separated, and so if you are united with another person, they ought not to also be united with any other party. 

Just as your boyfriend should value you, prize you, and celebrate you with greater vigor than his guy friends, he should also hold you up above any female friends. 

So in conclusion, its not wrong for a boyfriend to have a female "best" friend, but its difficult, its complicated, its unusual, and its a question (at least to me) about his commitment level to you. 

Hope this is just a theoretical question... If not good luck.

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