This is a very tough question. It's as tough as it looks simple. To love or "unlove" is a choice one has to make.
The ease at which you will be able to unlove a person would depend greatly on what extent you have worked on loving that person.
Sometimes, it's easier for you to unlove someone you made less efforts to love. But for someone you didn't really love but you had to put in a great effort, made a lot of compromises, just so you could love the person, then just when you're all loved up, it happens that the person wants out or something happens and you can't be together, that's way more painful. It is difficult to unlove such a person easily.
Some steps to unlove such a person could be
1. Never stay alone. Never isolate yourself. Always be in the company of someone or people, else, you'd always get to think of how much it hurts and it could lead to something unnice.
2. Find something to occupy yourself, could be work or any other thing you may love doing.
3. Avoid coming in contact with anything that has to do with such a person.
4. Allow yourself feel the hurt. By that, you're letting the hurt out and not embodying it. Let it out.
5. Ultimately, which I'd strongly advise (depends on the individual), is to pray pray and pray. Sounds very spiritual but trust me, it works magic.
I hope you find this helpful.
UNloving someone has to do with deciding to stop loving the person. It may be difficult but it is actually doable.
You will need to delete all traces of the person from your phone, or any other means
Delete all chats, call logs, perhaps even numbers, if it is that critical
Take away anything that reminds you about the person
Get something doing, don't be idle, Many a times, when you are idle, you get fed with thoughts of this person.
Unlove someone? That's actually Impossible. Once Love a person you cant unlove that person no matter what because love deals with choice as well as the heart. The moment you decide to love someone it means that even through pain you love that person, even through strife you love that person, even when that person is wacky and all, you still love that person, even if the person did all sorts of crap, you still love the person and even when the person has been all shades of scarry, you still love the person.
Love, is about you because everytime you love someone, you become a better you, So if you decide to Unlove someone its like eating pizza and throwing it out . the moment you love, you've loved. Now, its different when you choose to let go of a person or thing, but i still dare to say that You cant really unlove someone no matter how had you try, you can only not like the person or love that person as you used to but you don hate that person. Simply put, Loving someone is in your power but hating 'em is beyond your reach, because if you decided to change the way you live because of a person's failure or actions then you need to ask your self a couple of questions.
Love forgotten is still love. Love turned to dislike still has traces of love but don't change because of someone's action.
There are people out there, who have been happily married with someone whole there lives, have children and grand children, and still on there old days some can still think of a old love one, who they had never seen again. That saying you can't unlove someone, love will make sure that the connection stay till the end of time. You can only accept what happen and learn to live with the pain of lost, then when time goes by the feeling of pain will slowly vanish. But that person will stay in your mind forever.
yes, by kill the love
You can't. Though you may find that over time your love diminishes, as you change and grow. If it's a friend or former lover, the best bet is to move on. Find new people that you find interesting.
You can't unlove someone. Once you loved this human, events have had happened during that time. That is also why divorce doesn't function. It's because the love was flowing back and forth and how can that what you once loved be now divided into your half and his/her half? It's impossible. Those loving moments and experiences were there. You cannot erase them from your life plane.