Most people think building a successful marriage has anything to do with how glamorous the wedding is. The wedding has nothing to do with making a marriage work, it's both partners in the marriage that will decide to do all it takes to make it work. Most people only think about the bliss of marriage without thinking about the work required to make such bliss happens, thus, when they get married and start experiencing some normal marital challenges, they easily get fed up and opt out because that isn't what they expected it to be.
Most of them don't just have a clue of what marriage actually is,they only have an idea that they have created about marriage that is most times very far from reality. If most people wanting to get married take their time to understand what marriage is about before going into it, there would be less divorce and more successful marriages
A wedding been the talk of the town has never been a yard Stick for a successful marriage. Marriage is between two willing partners who are willing to go through the storms of life together.
You can have the wedding on the Stars for everyone to see but that's just for a day,at most a week. What makes marriage work out is the ability of both parties to understand their difference and give room for development. You must learn to let go of that ego and most importantly learn to say this simple word " sorry" even when you aren't at fault.
Why most talk of the town marriages don't last is because they focus more on the noise. What is the world saying?
The size and popularity of a wedding has nothing to do with the success of a marriage
If a marriage isn't built on compatibility, trust, vision and love, it's definitely going to fail. A lavish wedding, in this case, is only a consolation prize