What makes people have insecurity in their lives?

This is a difficult question to answer, and the reason why, is there are many variables to consider when addressing the topic of one's self esteem.

Reasons people may have low self esteem could be, but are not limited to:

  • Past trauma 
  • Poor social skills
  • Failed relationships
  • Abandonment issues
  • Addiction issues
  • Mental health issues

Just to name a few.  When dealing with insecurities, if one's life is affected in a negative manner, seeking therapy, or a friend you can confide in, might be your best option.

Low self esteem can be debilitating and lead to severe depression and/or anxiety. I hope you have someone to turn to if this is affecting you adversely.

I hope this answer helps. 

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Insecurity starts with lack of confidence,,many people who feel insecure happened to be that way because

they do not have confidence in their ability to overcome whatever challenges they may face in every aspect of

life,,insecurity starts with low self esteem and lack of confidence is what usually causes low self

esteem,,some people became insecured when they were bullied by someone else or when someone made

them feel so small or unimportant,but i believe that

learning to become more confident would help someone to fight any form of insecurity they are facing

in their life,another factor that makes some people to

become insecure is poverty,some people tend to become so insecure because they feel they might not

be good enough for a particular person especially in relationships...


 Insecurity is caused by many things, but the main cause is the "fear of failure".

This is why many people doubt whether doing this or that, whether it is worth it or not, will it be good or bad? That feeling of doubt is insecurity.


The fundamental reason of being whimsical is nonappearance of power and unremarkableness conflex. 

1. Feeling of need is an unsafe torment in which a man considers himself to be the most observably nefarious of the most exceedingly abhorrent creature of nature. His conviction level breezes up zero. No thought of pride. Stop to interface with others. A little piece at some arbitrary moment ends up bound and left out by others. The crucial driver of finish of insufficiency is continued with negligence and attack by others. 

2. There are people in the general masses, who get bliss in hurting others supposition. They when in doubt chasten, strike, and ousted others. They are sensibly wiped out and spiritualist in nature. Their remarks should be ignored straightway. 

3. Such people target you since you are superior to them in some respect. They are envious of you. Along these lines, they have to bother you and hamper your enhancement. By then, it is wary to pound their destructive structure and dismissal their endeavor. 

4. You are enchanting in this world with your propensities and awful etchings. Much of the time, each one has a substitute and entrancing regular setup, that sorts out our characteristics. Examination between emerge things is silly. Along these lines, you are neither poor nor superior to different people. You are yours, second to none. 

5. Everyone has legitimizes and in like way negative etchings. From this time forward, no one is done. No one is impeccable. No one is everything considered. 

6. There is a father to every father. That reasons, there is endlessly open for more quality than everyone. For example, there is more snappy than your energetic out-talked first tyke and more enrapturing and more shrewd individual than your alleged close brilliant individual, and so forth.