There are laws that guarantee a happy relationship but most times they are hard to observe , not because they are difficult but because we hardly understand how they work especially when our partner doesn't understand his/her role in the relationship. Here are few guides
1.Be original, don't pretend to be who you are not, this habit frustrate a relationship up to a level where it is completely broken.
2.learn to say "sorry, thank you, please" the words can correct many wrongs, my girlfriend thought me this words as key that can keep a relationship going
Sorry: when you are wrong or offense him or her
Thank you: when she do something you appreciate
Please: when you want to make a request especially unpleasant ones
3.once in a while surprise your partner: you may be rich or poor and she/he may be demanding or not , but once in a while do something he or she wasn't expecting. Those surprises keep the relationship as a romantic one.
4.Do not compare your partner with another, this could easily piss him or her off and makes it look like she is not appreciated. Forget the past and start a new life with him or her
5.look good. Every. Partner wants their date to look outstanding among others , so they could be proud as being yours. So as much as possible, always look good.
6.respect each other's opinion
7.try to gain more understanding about your spouse daily
8.compliment your spouse as often as possible
9.always assure him or her of your love for them.
10.Make your partner your friend and sometimes your adviser
I will try to give a brief explanation about this:
- Respect your partner, this is the most important.
- Don't say dirty things when dating.
- Don't act stupid (for example asking for strange things).
Just call somebody when you need to get together. This incorporates messaging too. I find superfluous calls/writings to upset and non-fitting to the point of dating. The purpose of dating is to go out and meet somebody (face to face). On the off chance that I needed to talk/message throughout the day, utilizing my telephone, I could generally utilize online life for that. In any case, it's extremely wrong to always torrent the individual you're dating with perpetual calls/writings. I have single word for that: youthfulness. Indeed, a little update content or a warm hi after not being in contact with one another for some time is fine, simply don't release it over the edge. Nobody ought to need to content their loved one throughout the day. Utilize messaging as an approach to convey feasible arrangements in a relationship (as in where you need your next date to be, not marriage. Genuine talks like that ought to be done face to face).
When you're dating somebody you like, try to meet them midway. Dating ought to be a 50/50 even split. No accomplice ought to put more exertion than the other. On the off chance that that is the situation, you should need to think about leaving that individual. A man who invests zero exertion does not merit your energy.
Try not to look cheap.. Dress well. You don't need to be rich, yet don't offer to take somebody out for a coffee, just to take them to a supermarket that offers free examples of coffee. Try not to do that. That is simply immature. As referenced previously, endeavor to prepare of time, through call and additionally message. About the dressing admirably part, no, you don't have to wear a couple of $80 fashioner shoes just to inspire your date, yet you do need to make somewhere around a touch of exertion to look all around cleaned; prepped. This means for clear presence of mind reasons, with the end goal to keep your date, deal with your cleanliness, put on crisp clean garments, wear a decent shirt and a some jeans, and so forth. Try not to appear to a date wearing messy raggy easygoing apparel.
Give the man a chance to pay on the primary date. That is a decent method for crap testing him for quality. A man who isn't keen on/not genuine about you, won't offer to take care of the bill. Hope to check whether he offers. On the off chance that he doesn't, he's a modest man, that in all likelihood implies he's excessively youthful/not candidly prepared for a long haul relationship. On the off chance that he offers to pay, cordially decrease, offering to pay a considerable amount of the bill. On the off chance that he keeps on offering to pay for the bill, acknowledge it. At that point thereafter, let him realize that next time, you would like to part the bill. This discloses to him that you are not a gold-digger. Be that as it may, recall, the best men offer to pay on the main date. (Simply make sure to tell him that you won't offer him sex in advance. On the off chance that he receives frantic that you won't offer him sex as a byproduct of paying the bill, at that point don't get together with him in any case).
Before entirely going out on dates with somebody, you should set aside the opportunity to become acquainted with him/her. Before you even go out on a first date with somebody, plan a telephone call with them. This is an incredible method for testing whether somebody merits your time or not. In the event that you're not happy with your call, rather than squandering everybody's time, basically say you are not inspired by going out with that individual. At that point, discover another person more good with your preferences.
In the event that something is bothering you about the other individual, talk up. Giving somebody the quiet treatment to stay away from strife shouts adolescence. A develop individual has the guts to stand up to the individual they're dating in a decisive way. On the off chance that you are not develop enough to discuss your emotions, you should not be dating, since dating requires a ton of correspondence.
Openness is of the utmost importance. Women, impart to your man what you need your relationship to resemble. All things considered, the ladies regularly set the pace of the relationship. Having this discussion before dating will guarantee a substantially more consistent dating process, by and large.
No lying. No control. No amusements. Only straight up trustworthiness, when essential.
When it comes to rules they needs to be followed, I don't think there are any rules written somewhere for couples to abide by.
They should be the ones who will make the rules themselves the way they like. Some couples do "no sex" relationship while others don't, so it depends on them to set their rules.