There's no true love without misunderstanding. No one is perfect, so there's no way all through your life in a relationship or marriage you've been making the right decisions, saying the right thing, your attitude has been superb and every other thing is okay.
Though everyone is actually praying for the best in relationships and marriages. But it is bound that there must be misunderstanding. Except both parties have not tried anything new or there's pretence. Even as at that, there are times when one party misinterpret the other's mood, body language or anything. Which can eventually lead to misunderstanding.
Sincerely, understanding ourselves as humans is quite cumbersome. Let alone understanding someone else.
An average human doesn't listen to understand but listens to reply (Steven R. Covey)
A philosopher said: Man has ventured on almost everything about the universe. But failed to study himself.
So in the course of trying to study and understand our loved ones. We misinterpret some part of their life which eventually leads to misunderstanding.
I don't really believe there's no love without misunderstanding. Except both parties are pretending. There has to be a misunderstanding for you to understand where you really stand with the person.
And a life full of pretence is a life heading for disaster.
For the fact that there must be misunderstanding in relationships and marriages doesn't mean we should allow it ruin our relationships and marriages.
The major thing is to control our rage and never to allow misunderstanding ruin our lives.
It's a big NO, no true love exist without misunderstanding. As our background differs so is our levels of understanding, when you see a couples stick to each other for years, that doesn't mean they don't fight or have misunderstandings, but rather the are patience enough to deal with it.
You see, we live in a world that the rate divorce is increasing at an arlaming pace. yes when they started, the love might be true,but they allowed misunderstanding to get the better of them, there is no perfect love out there. What brings the perfection is the ability to adjust and deal with each other differences.
Misunderstandings can happen regardless of love, no matter what you do. It has nothing to do with love. Misunderstandings can occur because people might not explain things properly or because some people tend to act on assumptions.
This however is not the end of the world, if there's love and will, these misunderstandings can be cleared. A relationship is based on trust, love, respect and many other things, so no worries.
@Maxwellnewlife7, In my opinion until we have thoughts then misunderstandings will be there and when we have misunderstanding in an relationship and then overcome from it then that's true love, so misunderstanding is part of our life because every individual have different mindset and thought process. Stay blessed. 🙂