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Why is finding true love increasingly difficult in the world today?
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Probably because it is now literally easy to fish for other fishes in the sea.

Take for example the popular app for meeting new people, Tinder. Just by judging someone's personal look and his/her profile one could potentially land a date after swiping right. It is now that easy to score for a date compared to years ago where one must first court and be nice to that someone in person

The problem however is that peoople only post and share their good qualities online. Often than not they try to hide their bad side and might even fake their persona. Because of this, a lot of precious time are wasted in getting to know the wrong person. 

Based on what I noticed with my fellow millenials, we are always bored and just want to pass by some free time. Unfortunately, some pass by time by toying with people's emotion. We can easily toy with people's emotions because we know to ourselves that there are other fishes in the sea. If this doesn't work out then one could just simply swipe right again.

So yeah! I think the reason why it is now hard to find "true love" is because we waste our time in getting to know the wrong person.

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Nothing is difficult in this world. most Of things are challenging like finding true love.

if you’re true to yourself and start looking for it and you’ll find.

you probably have to go out of your comfort zone. There are millions of people are searching for true love but they’re not willing to try harder or try different things.

please note I found my soul mate and if I ever have to find a true love again and I know I’m capable. Also I truly love myself and I know what I truly wants (70%) 

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 Finding true love may seems to be very difficult in the world today because of just one purpose which is the "lack of sincere intention". 

I believe true love is all about sacrifice and loving your partner without any condition. This implies loving your partner sincerely and unconditionally. 

-Today, most people who claim to be in love with their partner are just attached by some materialistic properties. These properties includes "the  status of the partner", "the wealth of the partner", the body of the partner", etc and many other qualities. The fact is that people tend to use love as a means of acquiring what they want in their partner. After they have gotten whatever they want, you see them quitting the relationship by bringing up unreasonable reasons. This is why the rate of heart breaks is highly common. Some guys are attracted to the body of a  lady which makes them get the lady by deception with love. After enjoying the lady's body several time through  sex, you notice the guy quitting the relationship because he has achieved his goal or aim. Similarly, a lady may get attracted to the wealth of a man, after the lady might have embezzle the man's wealth, she pulls a stunt just to end the relationship because she has achieved her goal. There are also many other reasons like that which you know of. 

 The fact is true love comes from the heart and not by materialistic attachment. Always love sincerely and avoid loving people for what they have because you may end up breaking their heart. Love people for who they are because even though they loose their materialistic items such as beauty, wealth, etc the love will still be there till the end of the world and this is why "true love never dies". 

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Because people now look and act like this...

Well thats half the battle.... 


It depends on what you mean by true love, everyones standard is different. For the sake of this question, I’ll frame true love as staying monogamous and true to another person. 


I wouldn’t say that finding “true” love is anymore difficult or easier than it was in the middle ages. The only change I see is the medium (technology) used in how we find our partner and interact. From a Personal standpoint, it seems that introducing people within friend groups are more successful. Popular opinion is that there is much more distraction due to the internet, social media and dating sites so people don’t stay for the long term, but if we think about it back in the middle ages, how would you know your guy or gal was only coming to see you? could be making pit stops on that horse carriage. Plus, they’ll receive your telegraph (bird message) 7 days later. Everything now is just a million times faster and more accessible. There are more options, but it is also a lot easier for someone to connect with another person and leave bad relationships. 


If we look at marriage as a institution, socially it was made for people to keep wealth within families, for financial stability or for upward mobility. Biologically, back in cave times it was mainly for child rearing and sexual exclusivity. True Love was not a concept until the 17th or 18th century and the idea of diamonds as a symbolism of love is actually just a really good marketing campaign. Sorry to make love sound even more hopeless…. 


That being said, the idea of true love is really what you make of it and how much courage you have to put yourself out there, even after failures. It’s also about what your values are and how much you are willing to compromise. Love is not static. Humans are biologically not made to stay monogamous, but its a choice and thats why true love exist. 

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This is my answer

Everyone wants to love and be loved. We experience various kinds of love from parents, relatives, relatives, and so on. Almost everyone wants to share deep love with one special person. Finding true love sometimes feels very difficult, and we don't understand why. The first question to consider is, "what is the definition of true love?" Understanding the answers to these questions reveals what we are really looking for and why it is very difficult to obtain.  The term love is often used rashly so it loses its true meaning. Love is often associated with feeling, in fact, centering on selfish desires and not committing. In various films and shows on television, we see how movie stars follow their passions and have sex before marriage. When "love" the roots are superficial, only in the feeling of pleasure or physical pleasure sensation, it will not last long and only lasts a moment. Want to enjoy good feelings with our loved ones is not a problem; however, if it is the basis of their relationship, then the relationship will not last. If "love" is what we pursue, then it is clear that it is difficult to find; what we pursue is not true love, but experience, which is not durable.

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True love is hard to find? Many people think that true love is very difficult to obtain. There are even some people who openly say that true love does not exist. So, what is the reason why true love is hard to find? Here are five reasons

1. Giving unconditionally is a trait that many people don't have

Giving up on the wishes and needs of others, then placing your own needs in the second place is certainly not easy. Therefore, true love is not easy to find.

2. Because of high self-expectations

You have a brilliant career and have many opportunities to progress. However, you are faced with two choices, namely love or career. Most people will choose a career and not love. So don't be surprised if true love is rarely found.

3. Because love is not just physical attraction

Physical interest is an important component of love, but that is not the only determining factor. Meanwhile, true love is not only based on physical attraction, but also the compatibility of the heart and the way of thinking.

4. Difficult to tolerate

True love can only occur when two people share mutual interests. You can have many interests, but you need to respect and tolerate what your partner likes. Tolerance seems to be something that is rare between current partners. So no wonder, if true love is hard to come by.

5. There are many temptations

A person's loyalty is often tested with various kinds of temptations, such as cheating, for example. But did you know that not everyone can resist the temptation. That's why true love is very difficult to obtain.

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Simple question but I have been thinking about this recently as a recent divorcee that has done some post-marriage dating with the aim to remarry...

What I suspect:

Excessive internet usage and social media has re-wired people to be more impulse driven. This effects people's behavior for the worse in numerous ways, which can add strain to relations. "Hell is other people", more so if they lack self control and have poor discernment of good and evil.

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True love is difficult to find in today's world due to several reasons. Many people don't even know the meaning of true love they are finding. How do you want to even know true love in today's society where abnormal have become normal.

One of the reason for difficultly in finding true love is (1) Lack of patience: people are not patient enough to find what they are looking for, they tend to get carried away easily by things going on around them. Another reason for this is. (2) Giving up easily: this means some people give up easily in there search for true love. Another reason is that (3) Some people are scared to make commitment into someone else because they believe it will affect there career. 

The hustle for survival is increasing day after day and this cannot give room to love someone else because they believe the time used for loving  can be used to make money for a better living.

There are many other reasons which includes lack of trust, fear of failure in relationship, some people believe love is a form of cage while some people are scared to hurt others.

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Finding true is so much difficult in today's generation due to technology and movie generation people mostly preferred to watch movie and so they know the full story of a movie and then they do what they had seen in the cinema hall so it is very difficult to find true love.

Nowadays people loving to other person but they can be separated after few days people it has said that it is not true love but they pretended to have a love for couple of days.

Due to latest technology I always preffered to have a arrange marriage so they both don't know each other and also they don't know the good as well as bad quality of each other and many more.so they can have a good love with each other for their better future and as well they can have a good family due to their love towards each other.

Thanks for Readings

Dhiraj patel 

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finding true love could be difficult sometimes depending on the kind of partner that someone meets because the person might only love you for what you have financially or sexually and because of that they will pretend to love you just to get whatever they want

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Why do you think you can't find love until now? Try to look in your mirror and see all the shortcomings. Are you short? Ugly? Boring? Not rich enough? Not someone who is good at communicating? Or everything?

If you continue to let shortcomings take over, you will not find love. With such circumstances it is very easy to lose yourself motivation and confidence. Chances are you have not found love so far because you have never seen your true self and continue to dissolve in it.

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People are getting increasingly self-centered and looking out for themselves only. 

They love only when they stand to gain from the union and take a walk when things don't work in their favour anymore.  

If people became a little more selfless,  I believe things would change for the better. 

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5 reasons for true love are hard to find:


1. Giving unconditionally is a trait that many people don't hav


1. Giving unconditionally is a trait that many people don't have own needs in the second place is certainly not easy. Therefore, true love is not easy to find.

2. Because of high self-expectations


You have a brilliant career and have many opportunities to progress. However, you are faced with two choices, namely love or career. Most people will choose a career and not love. So don't be surprised if true love is rarely found.


3. Because love is not just physical attraction

Physical interest is an important component of love, but that is not the only determining factor. Meanwhile, true love is not only based on physical attraction, but also the compatibility of the heart and the way of thinking.


4. Difficult to tolerate


True love can only occur when two people share mutual interests. You can but you need to respect and tolerate what your partner likes. Tolerance seems to be something that is rare between current partners. So no wonder,  if true love is hard to come by.


5. There are many temptations


A person's loyalty is often tested with various kinds of temptations, such as cheating, for example. But you know that not everyone can resist that temptation. That's why true love is very difficult to obtain.





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Because now a days people do not looks on the feeling of the human being they always things about their physical looks and finacinal good conditions and this is the main reason for not finding the best one in the life.

The people how loves us the more we always ingore that one and we all atract towards the other how never care for our feelings.

Having many problems in the life if we have a better life partner then we can slove all the others peroblems.

In todays generation people thinks about looking better and then thinking about other looking better in looks they nevet thinks about their feelings and love.

Hence this are the main reasons for not finding the true love nowdays.

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Focus on been true to yourself  and true love will find you! 

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Love is nothing. You catch him in an instant. As much as you like, you will fall in love with you one day. Love means to enter. If you meet, it'il be an oak.
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