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Who can change your personality to be better and successful?
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Hey! amazing question here.

"Nobody can better your personality than you" - @Uyobong

In my latest write  (in print), I wrote about creating a personal brand and it dawn on me that I am the best brand that ever existed in my world and I'll stop at nothing to build it until my ultimate goal is achieved.

While I am fully aware of peer pressure, pressure groups, friends, lovers,  and other influencing human groups, and their ability to influence a person's behaviour, actions and in-actions; it still falls  within the purview of a person to accept to yield to those pressures or not.

On the other hand, people who are nice and successful may tend to encourage and motivate us into doing what might have been considered impossible, though, we cannot be like hem until we break the ice to "do as they did"

Even though our minds will suggest many things, the human mind must come to a resolve and consent to the suggestions before an act is established. This brings the power to change an individual's personality to the individual himself.

We will succeed if we will to and we fail if we consent to it.

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You can.

You can do this in many, many ways. But, I'm not sure you should want to change your personality. You might just want to develop it. Learn to become confident in it.  Share it with more people and be genuine.

Then, I'd think about what you want to be better at and more successful in. Your question is vast. 

I'm me and am happy in myself. 

I want to be a better dancer.

I'll know I've been successful when I make a habit of dancing more in my kitchen. Because success in this area doesn't entail me becoming a professional dancer. The reason I'll be better is because I'm dancing more often and finding a convenient space where I can do it without anyone watching. I'll have fun and enjoy in each of the moments I create the time for this.

I want to be a better writer.

I'll know I've been successful when I have written my first book. When I've completed that, my success criteria will change, because there isn't one ultimate success. There are many things to be better at and many times you can acknowledge your success in them. 

And the great thing is...You get to decide which these things are. Both the big and the small.

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Only I can choose to change my personality. No matter what others will do, they can only aid influence your decision to change your personality but they will not be the ones to change your personality. They can only help you to reach that decision to change your personality.

It is not always an easything to change your personality and it does not just happen overnight. It takes time and it is a gradual process but with the right motivation or reason behind your decision, your efforts towards the whole process can be increased.

On a personal opinion, i believe the onlyperson that can imfluence me the mostto change my personality will be the one i love. When you love someone truly, you will want to do all in your power to make them happy and smile always. Withthis sincere desire, you will be willing to change some aspects of your personality that is not welcomed or appreciated by the ones you love.

Personality change can be difficult but with the right motivation/reason, it is very possible.

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We always try to do better in our life and thus try to change our personality if needed to achieve success in our life. There are thousand of inspirations around us, we just need to pick the best one for us.

It can be any family member, our teachers or any motivational people- who can inspire us to change ourselves for betterment. May be all they don't have all the positive influential personality to change ourselves. That's why we have to be sure who we are following and which behaviour we are adapting.   

But all of the above, from my opinion- if is 'we' who can change our own personality and motivate ourselves to to better. Many people can motivate us to run the race of our life, show us the better path, help us to be a better human. But if we do not help ourselves to develop continuously we could not be a better human ever.

As I stated earlier, thousand of people around us are really the persons who can help us to change our certain behaviour, mentality, thought, way of thinking to adapt a better personality. We have to be sure who we want to be nd how we could change ourselves. 

It is not like a formula, which could change us overnight. So it would be wise to take inspiration from the successful one and try to adapt that on us. 

We have to motivate ourselves to do better, to be a good human. To do so if we need to change certain personality we should take help or advice form the good personality owners.

But they only can help us or advice us or can show us the path. It is always us, who only can help to change ourselves and develop ourselves to do better.   

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