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Do you think its possible to ever forget your first love?
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Your mind will not allow you to do so.. Ever heard of oxytocin? The bonding hormone? It is released during orgasms from your pituitary gland situated In your brain. Never heard of it? But you definitely have felt it.. Remember that time when you first met you love whenever he/she came near you, you mustve got butterflies in you sttomach. That's because during that time oxytocin secretion is at its highest levels. And believe me when I say this, that feeling will never repeat itself ever again. For the next part of your life..

Any hormone when released makes you feel better is like drugs. They are triggers for the releated memories. So whenever you are reminded of your first love for any reason a fixed amount of oxytocin will be released which will make you gradually addicted to it. And its addicting then any other drugs. With enough time the memories should fade away but untill you forget every little moments you enjoyed its close to impossible. And science confirms it too..
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No,  I don't. Why would you want to completely forget them? Wouldn't you rather cherish the memory? Unless, of course, it's ruining your love life by making everything feel bland in comparison or by being too painful to remember. If the latter is the case, you can draw consolation from the fact that time heals all wounds.

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No way!

How I know this, is because, I'm 43 and my first love was my first girlfriend ever. I was 15.
I can still remember what her perfume smelled like and that I almost threw up when she told me, over 4 years later, that she did not want to go out anymore.

I used to get really attached.

She is still surprised to this day, when we speak, as we certainly do every so often, that I remember lots of stuff, like nirvana came out with teen spirit when we were going out and that she loved weird al.

Yeah, love that guy too. Just eat it!

Ok, now why are those memories so vivid?

Because memory is tied very tightly to emotion and, chances are, you had some very strong emotions when you got together with #1.

And, just like me tossing my cookies in the spare bathroom at her house, the one where her dad kept his hustler Mags under the guest magazines, breaking up is also a serious event.

You get exposed to the big three.

Emotionally we get damaged by the big three and this produces core memories to keep us safe later on from doing the same thing. Well, hopefully anyway.

Betrayal, abandonment and shame. The big three, B.A.Sh is an acronym I made up for that.

I hope I never forget any of my loves. They all taught me so much.

I hope you never want to either.

E-GO 2018



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I'm not sure you can forget my first love because that's the first time I came to know the opposite sex

There is no particular reason why love is so powerful for me, because this is a collection of tiny details that makes it important. It is full of intense emotions and passionate that I thought would last forever, that may be the reason why everyone says it's hard to forget first love
As I experienced

However, it makes sense because this is the first time I really love and feel loved by others. Even when that relationship ended, he remained a big part of my self.
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No, not possible. Having a first love is a unique experience that you'll remember for the rest of your life. Some aspects of it can potentially define your personality in life.

I wouldn't be the kind of man I am today if I didn't go through certain experiences with a crush.
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It is not possible to forget first love because this experience gave you the understanding of how it looks like to love an opposite sex in a romantic way. I have asked this same question from my friends in the past and they all said they can't forget there first love
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first love, it is hard to understand that it is love or something else. First, there is nothing to understand what is happening and why is it happening? To feel good about someone and then to become a whole life in a single meeting... What is this feeling, which has changed the whole life? Life has changed, everything is happening that has never happened before... Now you have not been loved ...

I do not know... no ... there is a big confusion ... but know how to know that you have fallen in love. Maybe we can help you a bit. If there are some such feelings in your mind, then understand that you have become loving, loving and just love. Do you see these signs in yourself? Take a look

Feeling uneasy in the mind every moment. Even after everything happens somewhat lacks.

The fragrance of love comes as a result of her refusal. As soon as he listens to his name, shame on the face gets shocked, heart starts beating.
The whole night turns around and turns around. Sleep does not come, how come? When they close their eyes, they come out and then they are cut in the eyes and eyes all night.

If she accompanies, Zindagi Haseen and the weather becomes pleasant. You start looking for a similar kind of life.

There is a sudden increase in your face suddenly. The friends start saying, Something is dizzy ... it seems to be a shine of love ... and you hide your face with shame.
Now you do not call her by her name. You gave it a 'nickname' and when you call it 'nickname' you pour out your love.
Your heartbeat increases as you see it as if you are running away from miles. Your temperature also increases.

His touch of light makes a stir in your whole body ... and that one's feeling of feeling gets absorbed in your romance.

You start talking to your mother or sister or relatives with great respect.
Her every stupidity and mistake makes you feel good.

After meeting him, even after talking about the hours, you feel that wish you could get some time, or wish, the result of this meeting will never be a separation.
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No,it is not possible to ever forget your first love, especially the one that cares about you
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No,it is not possible to ever forget your first love, especially the one that cares about you
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It is possible if sex has not been involved.
Reason: why you can forget is that if you ever meet one who give you a passionate love you want. You will forget.
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Well, it all depends on how the relationship ended. What if he was my first, but I wasn't his?
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It is impossible to forget loves because loves are divided into various categories the loves are girl friend boyfriend loves,mother loves,teacher loves,father loves and many types of loves are there but first love is unforgettable.

My first loves is that when I was born in the hospital my mother has a too much of loves on me and she protects me that no one can you check me.so mother was my first loves and the loves towards my mother is still continue.

My love towards mother is great because she always helpful in my routine work.so it is very difficult to forget my first love.

I always been there to love towards nature a.i am always be there to give new thaugjts that they can understand the meaning of love.
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We have try to forget, Maybe there's nothing more painful than to forget the first love. This is not an ordinary love. We think would live the rest of life. We are planning for the future, to study and live together. We've got a lot of jokes and memories of the time that has passed. Now that everything is over, we fear it later couldn't find someone who could replace them, or maybe we just afraid will not be happy with others. There is no miracle drug to forget first love besides hand it at a time and focus on our own lives.

Be aware that we have to pass through a phase in which we are not able to forget the former. Initially it will be so painful until we feel will not be able to do it, even just to start taking steps, and there may also be a profound belief that both of us will eventually get back together. Hope and denial from the inside of this will last for some time but a but later we will finally realize that you actually don't want to come back with this person. After knowing it, we will be able to easily move on to the next step.

Disconnect all communication with your ex. Cruel, but this is the only way that could be successful. We might feel lost best friends we have, the only people who really understand us. May initially be painful, but eventually it will feel better. We can't keep Remain friends while trying to forget.
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This inquiry has two answers, yes and no.

give me a chance to clarify, Truly, On the off chance that you attempt so. That is to say, there is nothing that somebody can't do. Truly, I am genuine adherent of this adage and there is likewise nothing more fun than doing what individuals say you can't do. All things considered, truly, all will disclose to you that it is so difficult to get your first love, well F*** them, and it's dependent upon you, in the event that you are extremely eager.

That is to say, a similar individual, who is endeavoring to get over his/her first love has done some truly impossible and unattainable things in his/her life, and afterward saying, this is the main thing I can't do appears … ..opposing !

What's more, doing that measurement not really mean getting included with another person. Everybody should do it their Own particular manner. Since, each individual is interesting and has one of a kind approaches to manage circumstances. You truly can't have any significant bearing Kareena's strategy for consuming ex gf's pic and flushing it. It may work for a few yet not for all.

Furthermore, for the second piece of reply, No, in the event that you will remain quiet about clarifying that you are never let him/her be overlooked by you. At that point you will have minutes, where you may eat/supper with might be your present accomplice/any companion/any family, and you will recollect what your first love he/she used to do right then and there, and the rundown goes on. Things being what they are, it's upto you, that for to what extent you will make yourself lamentable?
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first love will ne'er be forgotten as a result of it’s the primary time you have got ever older however stunning love is ..Its the primary time you have got ever felt however superb feeling is to run hand in hand with someone United Nations agency meant whole world for you.,The butterflies,the tingling sensation,the timidity,the uncontrollable smile everything for the primary time..Even though you stone-broke up…but you'll be able to always remember these feelings,,,Even though it should be out of your mind for a few months or years however one pic of the person or one message will revive the total reminiscences ahead of you..But the most effective half is you'll be able to revive those reminiscences not with cries when years however with a smile on face as a result of they were the most effective and precious moments of your life that you have got preserved deep in your heart …Though you will have emotional on and living mirthfully with somebody,but that individual person “your past love ” can invariably have a special place in your heart and its not possible to forget them and somewhere there could also be an opportunity that you simply still have feelings however you're mature and you recognize that the 2 of you'll be able to ne'er be along ….

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I don't think so. I know people with dimensia and alztimers and they still remember their first love. I think it is just something that gets burned into your brain.  I still remember my first love and that was well over 25 years ago. 

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