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What would you do when you are betrayed by the person you love most?
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It would depend on the severity, as being betrayed could have multiple methods. Say it was that they had an affair with someone else. That would result in me most likely ghosting them, and completely getting them out of my life as I go into a corner and stay hidden for a while. However if it’s something simple That doesn’t have any implication, I would probably talk to them and figure out why they did it and try to get an understanding. After that I would simple just accept it and try to convince them not to do it or anything like that again.

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 Betrayer by someone you love most usually hurts very badly and it sometimes causes an end to the relationship. I remember when I was once betrayed in school after helping one of my loved ones who later showed his true colours. I felt very bad and sad at that moment which left a scar on my heart because anytime we are sometimes together I do remember that shit. I just have no choice than to forgive and this add more to my experience about people. I just had to move on and keep staying happy. 

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Loving will make us do everything that makes someone we love feel happy and happy. When we are wholeheartedly loving someone, then our love is reciprocated by love; not rejected outright. And he also said from his mouth that his feelings were the same. Oh, the beauty of this world. The story now is that it turns out someone (lover) that we love so much is suddenly betraying (love our love, cheating, unfaithful). Of course what happens our hearts are smashed to pieces! "He's a jerk, bro! Even though I am the most loyal person in the world ... ", the curse of someone who is heartbroken. These are some of the reasons someone has betrayed, deviated or cheated. You may add yourself: - We don't take care of his feelings - The he is looking for or finding better or more perfect than us - The he wants something more than what we have given - He is looking for a new sensation - He's not the type of loyal partner - He did intentionally hurt our hearts - He is a land crocodile (for men) or sea crocodile (for women) - Basic nature of playboy or playgirl
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getting betrayed by someone you love most could be very heartbreaking most especially when you trust that person so much,well if i find myself in such situation what i will do that is that i will learn from it and just learn one or two lessons from it that in life we could get hurt by those we love most,so i will move on with my life and ensure that i stop putting too much trust on that person that betrayed me..
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I cannot do anything which feels bad for me as well as her because she also knows that I was loving him a lot and why she gone to another one.instead of hating I will start my making future bright ,I will not think of her at any time and I will totally concentration on my work.

When we meet accidently at any place I will not talk to him but I then my face when I see him so she will understand the feelings of my and she can learn a lesson.

When I am not a wrong person then also she leaves me so I feel that I that I had something left in my life and I will make my new career by leaving him behind.

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On the off chance that this occasion happened as of late, at that point no uncertainty you're experiencing a passionate emergency that none of us ever feels arranged to deal with. The agony and over the top ruminating doesn't appear to ever die down, yet it will, in the long run. We didn't advance as an animal categories to bear misfortune uncertainly. I deferentially can't help contradicting the individuals who say that you never get over it. "Getting over it" doesn't mean overlooking; It implies returning to a place in which you're sincerely steady, and that you can bear on a typical life. This is what 52 long periods of life encounter have instructed me as to accelerating the procedure of recuperation. 

Put the greater part of his/her stuff, photographs, remembrances, and whatever else that helps you to remember this individual into a crate/boxes. Store it away where you won't see it. In the event that you imparted a place to him/her, redesign, even in little ways. 

On the off chance that you don't have youngsters with this individual, or don't work with this individual, I emphatically suggest you go No Contact! Square messages, FB, telephone; in the days of yore, whatever we did was change the locks. Square his/her telephone number. Assemble an impervious divider around you and this individual. I'm not saying it must be like this eternity; just until you've recouped. Consider it a cast for a broken leg. No contact is a cast for your heart. No looking at his/her FB page. Deactivate or even erase all social online life accounts in the event that you need to. 

Selling out is an existence injury that can trigger clinical despondency. Know the side effects and look for proficient help on the off chance that you figure you might be discouraged. 

Discouraged or not, talking with a prepared psychotherapist can be exceptionally useful. A dear companion is awesome to have, yet a companion is certainly not an expert advisor. 

Remain occupied, work out, remain social. 

Ruminate in the event that you should, yet restrain the time you enjoy ruminating. Some portion of care and careful contemplation is figuring out how to typify your musings, to place separate in the middle of your feeling of self and the bustling personality that won't let you find a sense of contentment. 

Fabricate a post-relationship history. Put new things throughout your life. The all the more new stuff you put in your life, the less you'll feel characterized by the relationship. 

The time will pass; you will recoup.

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1. Take care of yourself Recognizing that a lover has an affair is a surprising, bitter and painful 'honesty'. Trust in it fades instantly and you also become unsure of yourself. Why is he cheating on him? Am I less beautiful and kind so she turns to another woman? A series of questions crossed the mind and created stress. But don't let sadness make you a desperate and undeveloped person. It's okay to cry every night, but keep your health with enough sleep. 2. Ask for Time to Break Honesty, he may be appreciated. But you are also an ordinary person who can be hurt. To calm down, ask for a split time. Avoid Meeting or communicating with him through any media for 2-3 days. When you break, think carefully about what steps you want to do. This method can also be a 'punishment' for a partner if he has made a fatal mistake. 3. Overcome Grief No need to pretend everything is fine. Everyone knows, love that is betrayed will definitely cause injury. Hiding the feeling will actually make the wound more painful. Just take your sadness. Crying Not forbidden, let alone confide with friends. But do not let 'grieving' until protracted, 4-7 days crying in the room can still be tolerated. 4. Don't Forced to Want to Know the Infidelity Details You must be motivated to know everything about the affair and force the couple to tell it in detail. But it's best to undo that intention because it will keep you reminded and it's hard to fix the relationship again. Unless you are sure you want to break up and knowing the story in full can help you forget it faster. Be careful with all the information you want to hear. 5. Don't Think of Revenge Upset And disappointed, you also want to reply to the behavior of him. By way of having an affair or teasing another man. But this is not the time to call a former ex-lover for a date what is asking him to re-establish romance. Revenge will not solve the problem. It might make you more happy, but only temporarily. After that, you will feel worse. 6. Divert Attention There is no harm in asking for a friend's help to relieve a little hurt because of cheating. Invite your friends or friends to go, travel, play games or eat together. Do anything that can distract you from this romance problem. Can also be alone fitness or watching comedy movies. This is not a way to run away from reality, but rather to remind you that your life will not end just because it was betrayed. 7. Make him promise If you still want a partner and improve relationships, make an agreement. Make sure he is no longer in touch with his affair. Ask him to do anything that can restore your trust in him. Only then can your romance be maintained. If he refuses, just say goodbye!
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